So long and thanks for all the fish!
Posted: Fri Feb 26, 2016 1:27 am
I have not posted much here - I have become discouraged. I did write a review, and I did respond under a different tag to some issues on the member's forum. In the 18 months or so that I have been learning from this forum, I learned some and I am appreciative.
But I am done, and I won't be back.
I have found forums like this unbelievably helpful in the past for different things. When my partner was desperately ill for a long time, a forum of other caregivers, for example, was the best thing in the world for me.
The value, as I see it, is that people with direct experience of that whereof they speak, give their personal opinions, based on their OWN personal experience and there is little or no judgement.
When almost every thread is responded to, almost every day by the same user, it becomes clear that there can be no personal experience involved.
When that person speaks as if he/she did indeed have personal experience, it becomes impossible to judge the value of the input - if (as is my case), it is the personal direct experience that is valued. No-one can be as expert in everything as at least one contributor appears to be. I could choose not to read that person's responses, and just skip them, and indeed I try to, but so many threads are literally hi-jacked, it becomes an exercise in futility.
When others insist on engaging that person, and then there isa back and forth, I just find that futile and juvenile.
It is a pity.
Bye, and thank you.
But I am done, and I won't be back.
I have found forums like this unbelievably helpful in the past for different things. When my partner was desperately ill for a long time, a forum of other caregivers, for example, was the best thing in the world for me.
The value, as I see it, is that people with direct experience of that whereof they speak, give their personal opinions, based on their OWN personal experience and there is little or no judgement.
When almost every thread is responded to, almost every day by the same user, it becomes clear that there can be no personal experience involved.
When that person speaks as if he/she did indeed have personal experience, it becomes impossible to judge the value of the input - if (as is my case), it is the personal direct experience that is valued. No-one can be as expert in everything as at least one contributor appears to be. I could choose not to read that person's responses, and just skip them, and indeed I try to, but so many threads are literally hi-jacked, it becomes an exercise in futility.
When others insist on engaging that person, and then there isa back and forth, I just find that futile and juvenile.
It is a pity.
Bye, and thank you.